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		<title>Want respectful children?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Feb 2013 03:10:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you want respectful children&#8230; You gotta be respectful to them. You want your children to listen to you? You gotta really listen to them. You want a child who is caring, sensitive and patient? You gotta be caring, sensitive and patient to them. You want a resilient child? You have to let them practice [...]]]></description>
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		<title>DARE NOT TO DISCIPLINE: My conversation with Dr. Laura Markham</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Dec 2012 18:12:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dr. Laura Markham has a new book out: Peaceful Parents, HAPPY KIDS: How to Stop Yelling and Start Connecting. It is practical. Easy to read. And very helpful. I had the distinct pleasure of having a fairly in-depth and lively conversation with Dr. Laura on her book&#8217;s blog tour. You can also down-load the transcript [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Owww kid! That hurt!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jun 2012 20:33:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Owww!&#8221; my husband screamed. Maybe he used some profanity. Not sure. I would have. Anyway, he’d been whacked in the shin with a  plastic rake by our three year old Hudson. Apparently it wasn’t the first whack because John said, “I told you if you did that again I’d take away the rake.” And so [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Do you scare your kids? Do you think they deserve it?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 20:31:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; Do you feel like that’s just the way it is? If your kids don&#8217;t do what you say and you&#8217;ve asked nicely more than once and they continue to &#8220;push your buttons&#8221; and &#8220;test your patience&#8221;, do you feel justified in your yelling? Or threatening? Your counting down? Your infliction of pain on their [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Leave Them Kids Alone</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 18:27:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It was a gorgeous, clear Southern California morning. An easter egg hunt had just commenced. Life was good. Except&#8230; My son wasn’t looking for the eggs.  He was fascinated by the cat door to our friend&#8217;s house or maybe he was fascinated by the cat. From where I was standing, I couldn&#8217;t quite tell what [...]]]></description>
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		<title>op·pres·sion /əˈpreSHən/</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Mar 2012 04:57:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; &#160;   Noun: Prolonged unjust treatment or control. eat this before that. put on a sweater. give your grandma a kiss. say thank you. say please. wave bye bye. give dad a hug. stop crying. go to your room. behave. do your homework. sit down. stand up. say you&#8217;re sorry. time out. just one more bite. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>THE NAG FACTOR</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 21:01:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://goodjobandotherthings.com/?p=3193</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[&#160; &#160; “The Stormtroopers came first in their white armor and then there was smoke and Darth Vader rose up from underneath the stage holding his light sabor and…” my Aunt recalled to a group of us about the live show she’d seen with her with her grandchildren at Disneyland. And exactly one of us [...]]]></description>
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		<title>WHEN YOUR KID SPITS AT YOU</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 23:49:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Given the almost universal meaning of spitting at someone as a sign of disrespect, I can see how some parents take it personally and respond indignantly with some variation on &#8220;Don&#8217;t you dare spit at me&#8230;I&#8217;m your mother and no child of mine is going to &#8230;&#8221; But do you really think your child is thinking [...]]]></description>
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		<title>ALFIE KOHN: MY HERO</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2012 01:02:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I can&#8217;t think of a better way for me to have spent Martin Luther King Day than to have worked on this post. I’m a sucker for brilliant, funny performers. My husband John Lehr is one. But sometimes at night when we’re in bed eating frozen grapes and watching The Daily Show I’ll say “Honey, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>OH DAVID! (DAVID, DAVID, DAVID.)</title>
		<link>http://goodjobandotherthings.com/oh-david-david-david-david/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 04:19:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[    “I love this book!” my 5-year-old daughter Jules exclaimed at the bookstore holding up a book called No, David! “Can we buy it?” “How do you know it?” I asked thinking Hmm! A book called No, David! by a man named David … Nothing quite piques my interest like someone looking back at their [...]]]></description>
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